CHRISSY: "I got clear, Eileen, that my expectations about life are simply way too high. Because we are all being force-fed a lot of false hopes, Eileen, about romance, weight management, success, sex, life - you name it... My seminar leader said to me, "Chrissy, you are a classic 'false hope' case...", because not only do I not have a very firm grasp on reality, but I also have a sort of loose grip on my fantasies, too... Oh, you can't be afraid of insights, even the big ones. If they don't suddenly make you understand everything, don't you see, it's a step if they leave you confused in a deeper way."